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P.A.I.N

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Jan

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Walk in my shoes

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Jan

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Went to visit my mom and my cats to seek comfort from them even they though they have no clue what happened to me. Decided to take a stroll but turned to be a very long walk. 2 hours of walking from 509b in my favorite heels but swear that 2 hours gave me blisters so I guess this heels is not that good after all. But which heels are good for long walks anyway. Walked barefooted. Finally I see sutd and upper Changi road east.

I’m starving depressed disappointed and looks like he really thinks he gave me a good lesson a piece of his mind and tried to put me in place but he have no clue what he did to me slowly all these years…

Allah is great.

The walk is peaceful though until a filthy Chinese middle aged man blow his nose clearing his nose directly at my face during my slow walk up down the hill. He had really got it from me! Idiot filthy bitch.

Oh God im only at the edge of the beginning sutd…

 
 
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Reminder

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Jan

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One of the most wonderful post I came through. Please go through it. In Sha Allah it will change our perspectives/view towards our problems. Very beautifully explained.
If you feel like Allah S.W.T doesn’t love you enough and He is sending hardship after hardship your way, He really loves you so much that He wants to change your condition for better. He sees flaws and inappropriate behaviour in your part, thus, He creates reasons for change. He sees a great storm approaching; a sea of great waves that will overturn your small boat into a lost treasure. Instead, He prepares you to become a living treasure that will one day occupy paradise with Him. He wants you to see the author of the storm not the actors.

The father doesn’t withhold from his children because he is cruel and mean, he withholds because he has greater knowledge. Good wisdom which will make his children into great kings/queens in the near future. Through withholding, the father allows the children to grow and appreciate things. Similarly, Allah S.W.T withholds and sends obstacles our way, to grow our faith and belief in Him. To make us appreciative of our blessings. To allow us to practice humility, for one day when we are in a post of great leadership and power, the fate and future of others may be in our hands, and InshAllah, we will be prepared to make good decisions. Decisions that will create future kingdoms of righteous beings, not sinners.

We as human beings do not understand or see the bigger picture. We are only equipped to understand the physical manifestations of this world. But there is more, and Allah S.W.T wants you to see it. While you may physically not be able to see some things, you can see things with knowledge and wisdom. And rest assured, Allah S.W.T is giving you the necessary knowledge through hardships.
We should not complain when things get tough, rather, we should thank Allah S.W.T, for He is planning things even when the storm is rising and approaching its peak. When the peak of the storm reaches, it unleashes a great force which causes a total transformation. Cities become ruins, homes become shapes, and roads become small pathways.

Similarly, the stronger the obstacles our way, the greater our attitude and perspective in life change. The better and greater we become. Great storms have great power, and a great effect on its surroundings. We are its surroundings being transformed of the old shapes into new shapes.
Sometimes a great storm is necessary to transform a region. And that is us. Regions of geographical disturbance. We as human beings are so accustomed to living a certain lifestyle that it takes a great storm to change our condition. While we may not like change, Allah S.W.T sees necessity, and he sends it forth. Know that great change requires great effort. And with great struggle comes great reward. And that is you my friend. You are being given a great reward through hardship. You are undergoing a total transformation.

In the midst of the waves and its fierce winds, don’t be consumed be the greatness of the storm for it will come to pass. It’s on the hands of a great king. You as an individual need to figure out how to get your eyes off of the storm to the One who can help you calm it. When you do that, you will immediately realize that the storm is at the hands of your father. The storm was initiated by the father because He knows better. And the father never intends bad for his children. He loves His children. By withholding, he gives them a much better reward. A fulfilling life with morality. Similarly, by withholding, Allah S.W.T prepares us for paradise.

So no matter how drastic your situation, Allah S.W.T is right there with you, and he will sustain you. But, you have to keep looking at Him. He is the One who can calm your storm. He is the One who can give you hope. And, He is the One who can change any circumstance. You have to be patient. Don’t accept the storm to magically disappear, rather, expect a bigger boat with greater force to stand its raging waves. When all set and done, you have a bigger boat, a more experienced captain, and the greatest friend who will be with you in eternity. You are the captain and Allah S.W.T is your friend.

Do you see the love the father has for his children?

 
 
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2014 marriage

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It should not be a taboo thingy or it should not be embarrassing for each other to express their feelings or words in their heart. I guess because it’s done online – it’s public that’s why… But this is my personal space, I can do what I want and write whatever I want here.

2014 has been a challenging year for me juggling my stressful demanding high paying job, my parents who are staying one roof but could not get along (after all those sacrifices and cracking of my head to get them a reasonable house), living together with Teni with no help and support and everything has been on me and it’s taking toll on me, couple misunderstanding with my in laws, the business we need to run, the routine life we are having, the lesser time we spend with each other – we are together all the time but we are not really together. I’m not ashamed to say it. It’s no one’s fault, it’s the circumstances we are both in, but I strongly felt that husband and wife should do their part to fill in the gaps if they want to stay happy. Sometimes both of us forgotten that and we too are humans and we have our flaws…

I really hope 2015 (4 July marks our 2nd year, 1st July marks our 10 years together) will be a better year for both of us.

Dear Allah, I lift up my marriage to you now. Although I love my husband, you made him and I very differently. In addition to your creation, we were raised differently. We have preferences and opinions that do not always align.

In fact, sometimes they cause great tension between us. I pray that these differences which we slowly realized will not tear us down. Please help my husband and I to be more compassionate and humble towards each other. Give us the strengths and the endurance even when it is challenging or hard, like during the times that we are at odds, or with a task that we know we may not enjoy, yet we fought so hard because we know we both are worth it.

May you guard our mind and our heart from temptation, give us the strength to resists sin, continue to mature our character and make us more like you. May we respect our differences, recognize each other needs, regard every of our feelings and still be on the same page. May we prioritize each other over everything so that it will last till lifetime, may we not take each other for granted so that when our marriage is strong and healthy our kids will follow the same thing and marry someone who do the same thing with our kids too.

I pray that we both will recognize our roles as husband and wife to make our home/ marriage a happy one regardless of our circumstances, regardless of what is needed, please help us to do it joyfully with faith and help us learn how to thrive in our marriage despite these differences. Amin Ya Rabbal Alammin… @gembygems

Nothing to be shame about and please don’t judge you people…

 
 
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