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2014 marriage

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Dec

15
yanni Posted by Yanni at 10.35AM (0 views)

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It should not be a taboo thingy or it should not be embarrassing for each other to express their feelings or words in their heart. I guess because it’s done online – it’s public that’s why… But this is my personal space, I can do what I want and write whatever I want here.

2014 has been a challenging year for me juggling my stressful demanding high paying job, my parents who are staying one roof but could not get along (after all those sacrifices and cracking of my head to get them a reasonable house), living together with Teni with no help and support and everything has been on me and it’s taking toll on me, couple misunderstanding with my in laws, the business we need to run, the routine life we are having, the lesser time we spend with each other – we are together all the time but we are not really together. I’m not ashamed to say it. It’s no one’s fault, it’s the circumstances we are both in, but I strongly felt that husband and wife should do their part to fill in the gaps if they want to stay happy. Sometimes both of us forgotten that and we too are humans and we have our flaws…

I really hope 2015 (4 July marks our 2nd year, 1st July marks our 10 years together) will be a better year for both of us.

Dear Allah, I lift up my marriage to you now. Although I love my husband, you made him and I very differently. In addition to your creation, we were raised differently. We have preferences and opinions that do not always align.

In fact, sometimes they cause great tension between us. I pray that these differences which we slowly realized will not tear us down. Please help my husband and I to be more compassionate and humble towards each other. Give us the strengths and the endurance even when it is challenging or hard, like during the times that we are at odds, or with a task that we know we may not enjoy, yet we fought so hard because we know we both are worth it.

May you guard our mind and our heart from temptation, give us the strength to resists sin, continue to mature our character and make us more like you. May we respect our differences, recognize each other needs, regard every of our feelings and still be on the same page. May we prioritize each other over everything so that it will last till lifetime, may we not take each other for granted so that when our marriage is strong and healthy our kids will follow the same thing and marry someone who do the same thing with our kids too.

I pray that we both will recognize our roles as husband and wife to make our home/ marriage a happy one regardless of our circumstances, regardless of what is needed, please help us to do it joyfully with faith and help us learn how to thrive in our marriage despite these differences. Amin Ya Rabbal Alammin… @gembygems

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Dec

15
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Dec

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I love you, mom

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Sep

11
yanni Posted by Yanni at 10.52PM (3 views)

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I love you, mom

Mom, I love you with all my heart
Even though my words don’t begin to describe how much I love you, I want you to know this anyway…

Just the thought of you can bring a tear to my eye, a smile to my face, and the most thankful feeling I’ll ever have to my heart.

The blessings that come from you are the most beautiful things in my life…

There have been so many times when you have felt just like a gentle sunrise shining for me, sending wonderful wishes my way, warming my soul, inspiring my days and lifting up my spirit.

Mom, you are just too wonderful for words. I love you and I always will with all my heart forever.

Being a Mother Is a Hard Job. This all important job comes with little or no training. There’s no license or degree to certify you are properly educated and skillfully prepared to do the job…

Unlike most careers, motherhood is one full of emotional ups and downs. No one is more important than those you are in charge of.

When difficult times seem overwhelming and you wonder whatever possessed you to become a parent in the first place, remember: the answer is love…

It’s love that will see you through every heartache and worry. Love will soothe, kiss and hug away fears and sadness.

This kind of love never disappears, even when everything else seems to – because the love of a mother is the only kind guaranteed to be unconditional and never ending.

When I look at you, Mom… I see a remarkable woman with a kind and caring heart who is beautiful in every sense of the word… I see a smile that lights up the room, laughter that is truly contagious and strength and wisdom beyond anything I have ever known.

You are everything wonderful in this world and if I had just one wish it would be that you could see what I see when I look at you.

Mother, you are the greatest gift of my life. I don’t recall the first time you held me or when I first heard your voice. But from the first moment you held me in your arms you made the most selfless choice…

You choose to change your busy life so my life could begin. You were shelter from the rain; on you, I could depend.

You held my hand when i was afraid and helped me to mend my first broken heart. I still remember that very day when you bandaged my wounds, wiped my tears, and kept me from falling apart… In my old bedroom… At Yishun…

You loved me without question, no matter what I did. You shaped me into a confident adult from such an awkward kid. Even though you’re not always right beside me now, your love is matched by no other. And I thank Allah each day for His greatest gift: making you my mother.

The love We share is Forever. The love we share as mother and child is a bond of the strongest kind. It is a love of the present, interwoven with memories of the past and dreams of the future…

The Love we share is strengthened by overcoming obstacles together. It is having pride in each other and knowing that our love can withstand anything. It is sacrifice and tears, laughter and hugs.

It is understanding, patience, and believing in each other. It is wanting only the best for each other and wanting to help anytime there is a need. It is unconditional, forever kind of love.

Mom, if I could, I’d give you the world… I wish I could build you that dream home you’ve always wanted. I would fill it with your favourite people and your happiest memories…

I wish I could take back all those times when I hurt your feelings or let you down. I would exchange then with words like “I Love You”, or “I’m so glad you’re my mom.”

I wish I could guarantee that we’d have all the tomorrows we’d ever want and all the time we’d need to celebrate and enjoy our great relationship…

But I can’t build you your dream home or change the past or predict the future. So I will just tell you how much I love the person you are.

You’ve had an unforgettable, wonderful influence on my life, and I am very glad that you’re my mother.

A mother’s love is one of a kind. Only once in your life will someone so special walk in front of you and prepare the way for a better future.

Only once will there be a person who cares enough to say “no” but is enthusiastic enough to say “yes” whenever is possible.

Only once will you have the opportunity to be loved by someone who could never love you more than she does every day. A mother’s love is indeed one of a kind.

Mother, you are such a wonderful person. The examples of your love will always live big in my heart. I understand better now how hard you worked, saved, and sacrificed for our family so our lives would be better…

I appreciate your sensitivity and compassion, and I am thankful for the lessons I continue to learn from you.

To say you’re a great mother is an understatement, but I also want you to know that I think you’re a sweet and wonderful person.

My mother, for as long as I can remember she has been by my side to give me support, to give me confidence, to give me help..

For as long as I can remember she had always been the person I looked up to so strong, so sensitive, so pretty

For as long as I can remember and still today she is everything a mother should be.

For as long as I can remember she had always provided stability within our family full of laughter, full of tears, full of love.

So much of what I have become is because of you and I want you to know that I appreciate you, thank you and love you more than words can express.. Nobody else in this world can see what I see in you or able to understand how I look at things and how much I love you and have doubts on you and may be against you, they know nothing and they are nothing to me.

The bond between mother and child is a special one. It remains unchanged by time or distance…

It is the purest love – unconditional and true. It is understanding of any situation and forgiving of any mistake.

It is knowing that no matter where you go or who you are, there is someone who truly loves you and is always there to support and console you…

It is always there – anytime, anywhere – whenever it is needed. It is a gift held in the heart and in the soul, and it cannot be taken away or exchanged for another.

To possess this love is a treasure that makes life more valuable.

I love you momma – this wonderful speech expresses my deep appreciation for a mother who has inspires, encourages and nurtures me with constant love and support….

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Doomsday…

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Aug

20
yanni Posted by Yanni at 10.27PM (6 views)

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seriously from the bottom of my heart, I am very sad, depressed and disturbed by how people in this world operates. Full of cruelty, politics, greed, agenda, selfish, hatred… Too many deaths, too many people in this world attacking each other. I am really desperate for answers. What are our world leaders doing? What are you doing Obama? What are the Muslim leaders doing? Who the hell are you ISIS? What are you Israelis doing to Palestinian – why do you take away someone’s else home? What are you Americans doing in Iraq? What are you guys attacking each other? What’s up with all these wars? What are you guys fighting for? Why are you all doing this to one another? What do you get? Money, power, authority, recognition, gas, oil, what else? All of you will leave this world one day and you can’t bring them to your grave… Why can’t we live in peace? Who start all this war? What triggers everything? What the heck is going on? Where is your humanity? What is this?! Killing, beheading, bombing, shooting, raping, robbing, abusing etc… I am so so so desperate. Just end this world, Allah. All of us don’t deserve to live… Just end it!

 
 
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