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I shall call it, Hit 2 birds with one stone. Take it as public apology, and to remind all readers who are on our side to stop giving comments to Ms. Linda NJ, and to clear the air again for my friend, Nadya. I really appreciate it and I am thankful to those whom I don’t know, that you are on our side on this unnecessary drama. I hope my second attempt would work things out. I really want this to end well but I need everyone to co-operate.

Like I had mentioned, I am a responsible person for the things I have done. I am glad that I did the right thing by writing to Linda. After much thoughts and putting myself in everyone’s shoe, I think the best way is to give in. That was my intention in the first place; getting the girls to talk it out. I hate to see the girls fighting like mad people through blogging. I mean it is getting nowhere and what do you all gain. No one made the first move to give in. Not even the girls and not even Linda. Some told me since they don’t bother, why do you bother. But the thing is, I hate unhappy environment. I hate drama. I hate endless fightings. It’s not as if Linda is my best friend and she hurt me so much like how my used to be friend did to me few years ago, that I had to hate or dislike her. It’s not as if this matter leave such a big impact on me but it does leave an impact to the Nadya + Emily and also to Linda. I don’t see any reason or point for me to hate or dislike her. And someone have to break the ice between them. And that I knew it has to be me.

A friend stopped me from writing cos she said the girls or Linda should be the one doing it not you, why are you doing the work for them. I think it really doesn’t matter cos I am involved too. I can choose to ignore this matter and not care about how she or they feel. If I am a bad person, I would added more fuel to the fire which has burnt so much hatred in it. If the girls are so bad and got so much of free time, they would have do a lot more to bring Linda down. But I know I wouldn’t like it if this thing happens to me. This would not have happen if we girls cool down and talk it out nicely.

I don’t know what went into me and I blew my top too. I guess that “stupid Jayborn” comment managed to make my blood go vrroooooooooooommmmmmmm, well done dear clown… I must learn how to control my temper, my anger! However, Linda is not the solely victim here. The girls have their fair share too. I think there is 3rd party who tried to mess around. Don’t let me find out it’s the midget and the 2 best friends who did this (I am not accusing but just don’t let me find out cos it will turn uglier than how I did to Midget directly previously). I know and I am aware how much they hate these girls and how free they are to do such things. Get It?

Of course with the teachings and the knowledge my boyfriend shared with me on our religion. I think I am doing the right thing. This whole thing is crazy. It is childish and I do not wish to be in it any further. Take it as a lesson my dear friends. Try not to blog about somebody intentionally. And the next time someone blog about you and try to bring you down. Do not blog about it back. Do not complain. Try your best doing what I normally do - confront. Ignorance is a bliss. But not to certain issues. Clear the air. Never be afraid to admit your mistakes. It just make you a better person. Do not be ego.

I understand how angry the girls are when Linda blogged about emily’s profession. This is the thing which sparked off everything. I am glad Linda finally can see and realized that she should have exclude that sentence. Thank you for replying my email and explained your part too. So here is my apology for calling you a whore. And for the devil comic strip too. But I hope you will settle it nicely with the girls. Please don’t take my kindness for fear. I am truly not scared of the authorities which you have been highlighting it again and again. You have yet to apologize to me for publishing my details in that police report. However, I take it that by having it censored the moment you knew it was wrong, speaks for itself that you were sorry about it. Fair Enough? It would be better if you can apologize to me personally though.

I think my friends and my boyfriend who think they know me damn well find this amusing. How can I; whose a hot headed and stubborn lady, gave in. I am not that unreasonable nor selfish. I have my reasons for giving in to certain people. I am not stooping down on her. I just knew I had to do my part about this. Get it done and over with. I hate to drag certain problem. All of us to be blame.

1) Linda for blogging about Emily’s profession in that manner.
Click to see what she write that sparked off everything

Link : Stop it already lah seh

2) Nadya is not wrong to defend Emily cos I know what she is trying to do but she should have not blogged about it, instead;
3) Emily should approach Linda and talk things out with her.
On this, you can find out more by reading Nadya’s blog

4) Then I came into the picture trying to ask the girls to clear the air before it become worse. I was misunderstood and my mistake for blowing up my top that super fast.

5) Then Linda for publishing our details in the police report to prove her innocence thinking that we might be afraid. But it doesn’t work at all. Not for me and not for Nadya.

But she censored off it knowing it is wrong. Click on the link: !!!

6) Then me for putting up that devil comic strip. I went overboard just to agitate her and satisfy my anger. That was wrong. So you see.

Link: Sorry have to be in malay
Link: A note to a stupid trainee

7) And the list goes on with different comments voicing up for our side and her side.

Link: Gentle Reminder
then
Link: it’s going to be ok
then
Link: Silent Majority

What a big mess! We can avoid this if we can think before we do something. So please to everyone, be it on my side, or on Linda side or on Nadya + Emily side, let’s stop it. Everything, All of us. Fair enough right?

And after so much of comments from all kind of readers. Finally someone firm are able to understand my point of view. This is what I have been trying to explain to Linda and her side. We should not think of ourselves too highly. Be it Religion wise, Educational, Earning Power, Status or whatsoever. Don’t ever think that when we have these, we are better than anyone else. Like I have always, the best has yet to come.

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After much explanation with Nadya, I am glad she understood and appreciate what I have done. Nadya, don’t think we are arguing. I want you to know that I understand why you are angry with Linda and why you got worked up when I tried talking to you to settle it with her. I am proud of you. It takes a big person to do this. And I am glad you did it.

Her Email

I will update my email soon; it is 1 am sharp. I am working tomorrow. Monday Blues….

This is the email which Linda and I exchanged.